Nicole Botiaits Santa Barbara Therapist at Botaitis Therapy Group

Nicole A. Botaitis, LMFT & LPCC

My Core Values Around Counseling:

Clarity, Empowerment, Transformation

Often individuals feel “stuck” and are fearful to make changes in their lives. In the beginning stages of therapy I assist clients in identifying what is not working for them as well as helping them make sense out of what is confusing or holding them back from change. This process brings about clarity.

Once things are clearer and fear has been put to rest, the empowerment process can begin. Throughout the counseling process I view myself as a safe support and guide. I help individuals realize that they possess all they need within themselves to have a more fulfilling and purposeful life.

My approach is proactive and solution focused. Together we generate a game plan and construct effective strategies to accomplish the transformation you want.

For over 20 years, I have helped my clients through their toughest times and successfully achieve the changes they wanted to make in their lives.

How I Work With Clients

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    Relational

    I engage with my clients in a manner that provides a safe and empathetic space to explore their feelings, thoughts, and past experiences.

    I am approachable yet maintain professional boundaries, ensuring a safe environment for open sharing.

    During sessions, clients have my full attention with focused reflections and reframes.

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    Collaborative

    I read between the lines of what my clients are saying and pull out information that allows them to feel understood and heard.

    I put pieces together, catch things unsaid, and make sense of themes and patterns to support clients in reaching their goals.

    I politely challenge my clients to ask the hard questions and gently pointing out discrepancies in their actions and intentions.

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    Encouragement

    I am a supporter of my clients in a manner that allows my clients to build self-confidence so that they can advocate for their best self.

    My clients appreciate the balance of being challenged, yet supported and attuned to what they are needing in the moment.

    This approach helps them grow and make meaningful progress toward their goals.

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    Future Forward

    I believe that there is always room for self-improvement and personal development.

    I work with clients in a goal oriented manner that provides safety in structure while having the ability to be flexible and adapt to clients’ needs.

    Throughout session I make hypotheses, check for understanding, and support clients in aligning their actions and values.

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Background and Expertise

  • MA, Counselor Education, Graduation 2005

    -California State University, Sacramento, CA

    -Dual Specialization: Marriage, Family, Child Counseling and School Counseling

    -Chapter President, Chi Sigma Iota, Professional International Honor Society

    BA, Sociology, Graduation 1994

    -University of California, Santa Barbara, CA

  • Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor #227, 2012

    Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist #47319, 2009

    Professional Clear Pupil Personnel Services, 2005, renewed 2010, 2015 and 2020

  • California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists, (2005 – Present)

    Santa Barbara Association of Marriage and Family Therapist, (2011 – Present)

    American Counseling Association (2002-2007), (2018 – Present)

    Association for Counseling Education and Supervision, (2018 – Present)

  • Antioch University MACP Program (2017- Present)

    -Director of Clinical Training (2017-2020)

    -Clinical Teaching Faculty (5 different courses to 1st and 2nd year students)

    -Programmatic Development

    Pacifica Graduate Institute MACP Program (2011-2014)

    -Clinical Practicum Associate

    -Adjunct Faculty (5 different courses)

  • Botaitis, N.A., Southern, J.S. (submitted for publication). Telehealth therapy for therapists: Barriers and benefits. The Family Journal

    Botaitis, N. A., (May 2020). Virtual Job Fair via Zoom consisting of 25 breakrooms and 80 participants

    Botaitis, N. A., (March 2020). Telehealth: How COVID-19 has (or will) impact the education and training of MFT students/trainees. Central Coast Consortium; Online

    Botaitis, N. A., O’Malley, J. (October 2019). White Fragility in Counselor Education. Association for Counselor Education & Supervision (ACES) Conference; Seattle, WA.

Isn’t it time you stopped feeling stuck?
Change is possible and it begins with you.